ScanFakes

Scam detection guides

Practical ways to spot fake profiles and stay safe while dating online. A scan is one tool, and these habits protect you whatever a Fake Score says.

Fake Scores can vary and we can't promise 100% accuracy. Use scans to help inform your decision, never as your only source, and follow these guides regardless of the result.

Spot a fake or stolen profile photo

Scammers reuse attractive photos of other people. A few checks go a long way.

  • Be wary of photos that look like professional model or stock shots.
  • Look for too-perfect galleries with no casual, everyday pictures.
  • Watch for mismatched details, like backgrounds, clothing, or ages that don't line up across photos.

Recognise romance-scam red flags

Fake profiles often follow a familiar script. These are the classic warning signs.

  • They profess strong feelings unusually fast, or shower you with affection early on.
  • They always have an excuse to avoid a live video call or meeting in person.
  • Their story shifts over time, or the details don't quite add up.
  • They quickly push to move the conversation off the dating app to text, WhatsApp, or Telegram.
  • They claim to be far away, overseas, on a deployment, on an oil rig, or 'stuck' abroad.

Verify someone is really who they say

Before you invest time or trust, confirm the basics.

  • Ask for a live video call early, as genuine people will usually say yes.
  • Meet in a public place for the first few dates, and tell a friend where you'll be.
  • Check whether their name, job, and photos match their other social media accounts.
  • Ask specific questions about details they've shared and see if the answers stay consistent.

Protect your money and personal data

No matter how convincing someone is, keep money and sensitive details out of it.

  • Never send money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency to someone you haven't met in person, for any reason.
  • Ignore 'investment opportunities' or urgent emergencies that require you to pay.
  • Don't share financial information, passwords, or ID documents.
  • Be cautious sharing intimate photos, which can be used for blackmail (sextortion).

If you think you're being scammed

Trust your instincts. Acting early limits the damage.

  • Stop sending money immediately and cut off contact.
  • Keep evidence: screenshots, messages, and any payment records.
  • Report the profile to the dating app so they can take it down.
  • Report the scam to your local authorities and, if money changed hands, to your bank.
  • Be kind to yourself, as these scams are designed by professionals to deceive.

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